Hey hon, I heard you crying outside your ex-girlfriend’s room tonight. I’m so sorry it didn’t work out between the two of you. You really sounded like your heart was broken. I’ve been in the same position and I know it’s going to hurt for a long time. Don’t spend forever playing the blame game, don’t beat yourself up too much, and learn to forgive her too. Exercise, eat something you love, listen to your favorite music and give yourself time.
I’m offering a hug over the internet.
– Anon
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Thank you for writing this. This is incredibly sweet. I never quite understood why break ups often happen to people I know so close to Valentine’s Day. I too offer a virtual hug. Take some alone time if you need it, but don’t hole yourself up in your room. Reach out to your friends. Make them take you out or make them stay in with you. Don’t forget to take care of yourself: eating and exercising. Stay strong, lovely ❤
Thanks a lot both of you!!! (and everyone who has given me their encouragement and support!) I’m sorry to the OP that I was being so loud and hysterical. >.< My heart hurt a lot but I'm slowing getting better. Im not quite to the point of complete forgiveness, but I certainly am trying to be understanding and rational about what happened; I can never hate her for doing what she believes is right for her. Now I'm just trying to get all the cuddles and hugs as I can.